The Dance Instructor

The DI has been with us on Oahu all these years but under different names. In Waikiki, they have been known (from the Beach Boy days) as Gigolos, Play For Pay Partners and Dally For Dough Daddies.

Most involved with the dance clubs have referred to themselves as "semi-professional." But as has been pointed out on several occasions by an experienced professional, "There are no "semi-professionals." You do for money or you don't.

"The pleasure we obtain from music comes from counting,
but counting unconsciously. Music is nothing but
unconscious arithmetic." ~Gottfried Wilhelm Leibniz

And it has been more readily acceptable lately as carried over from the Philippines. For some wealthy women in the Philippines, ballroom dancing has risen from a mere social pastime to being almost a way of sustaining life. The phenomenon had been chronicled in Baya-rang Puso (Heart for Hire), a blockbuster film from the 1990s showing to packed houses.

In it, matinee idol Aga Muhlach plays a handsome young man who finds easy money working as a DI -- a ballroom dance instructor. His prime partners are the affection-starved, cash-rich matrons that Manila has in abundance. One after another, they fall for his charms and ply him with extravagant cash tips and gifts.

"Oh, Pretty Woman" by Roy Orbison

Afternoon-tea gatherings of the bluebloods of Manila society, known as the "Sparklers," are rich with gossip about the ballroom scene. Which matron has fallen in love with which DI? Which one has bought her DI a new car? Sometimes it is just gossip. Sometimes the ballroom has clearly led to the bedroom. Says a known dance regular: "You can always tell who's having an affair. It's in their eyes and in the way they dance."

Some are shocked, but not newspaper columnist Barbara "Tweetums" Gonzales. "I'd rather have my mother dancing the night away with her DI and having the time of her life than wasting away on her lonesome," she said.

"Disco Inferno" by Trammps

Nearly all Manila hotels offer ballroom dancing, but only one, the Heritage, combines high tea and twirls. Also available there are female DIs. "Men want to dance too," says Geena Zablan, an executive at the hotel. "We have an increasing number of men coming in."

The Heritage's DIs are paid a regular salary. On top of that are the "hire charges" -- up to about $60 for an evening -- and tips. "You also have to feed him or her and provide drinks," says Zablan. "Like someone who drives for you, you feed your DI because they provide a service."

Happening on Oahu too? You can bet your dancing shoes on that.


And for the regular dancing fans we have the first announcment:

No truth to the rumor that next year it will be held
at the Blaisdell Center.

Smashing Blog on Bantay Bata in The Dance Connection by Frank Sierra. There are plenty of photos to please everyone. A must read for all the dancing fans even if you weren't there.